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Thursday, February 4, 2010

TEENAGE VIOLENCE




ENGINEERIG COLLEGE STUDENT WAS KIDNAPPED
AND BEATEN BY SENIOR STUDENTS



This incident happened two days back in chennai.The student is the son of a senior I.A.S.officer.The reason was that the boy did not respond to the commands of the senior students.The seniors got very angry with him that resulted in kidnapping and beating of the poor junior student.






ANOTHER ENGINEERING COLLEGE STUDENT WAS
RAGGED,BEATEN AND WAS THROWN FROM    THE
FOURTH FLOOR OF THE HOSTEL


This incident also happened  in chennai.The boy sustained very serious injuries and his condition became very critical.







A SIXTEEN YEAR OLD SCHOOL BOY WAS BRUTALLY
MURDERED BY HIS CLOSE FRIEND




This incident happened in salem district of Tamilnadu.The boy gave his friend some money to purcahase a mobile phone.His friend did not purchase the mobile phone for him.He asked him to give him back the money.His friend tried to cheat him.The boy got angry and told him that if he did not give his money back he would complain the matter to the head master.His friend got very angry and brutally murdered him in the bath room of the school hostel.The police arrested the teenager and produced him before the court.



The modern day youth are emotionally imbalanced.They do not know how to control their bad negative emotions.These adolescents are rich and are from an affluent family background.Economically they are strong;emotionally they are very weak.College education may help them to get a degree.This may help them to get a good job.These childeren are hot tempered,born to fight and learn to terrorise their co-students.They do not learn any good amount of moral training from their family.They have no good role model to follow.They learn all bad lessons from bad companions.Cinema teaches them every thing they need to pursue a bad career in life.In kerala even thirteen year old boys consume alcohol.Mini bars are available every one kilometer distance.Emotionally imbalanced children are more prone to alcohol and street drugs.No doubt that their bad emotions slowly convert them into typical sociopaths,they in turn become psychopaths.

All the above incidents happened in school and college premises.These students in general are intelligent and they are above average in knowledge and skills.They can study well and can get good marks.They may pass their examination with distinction and may even get good jobs and earn lucerative emoluments.These adolescents will carry not only good qualifications with them where ever they go but also carry with them their bad emotions.

The most important contribution education can make to a teenager's development is to help him toward a field where his talents best suit him where he will be satisfied and competent.The above incidents simply shows that these children are educationally more competent and emotionally more incompetent.

Instability and inconsistency of daily family life are rampant in these segments of our society including the well to do and highly educated family.IQ in no way conributes to success in emotional life.Academic intelligence has little to do with emotional life.

These children should be trained well to handle the emotional crisis in their life.They need the following abilities in general.

the ability to motivate oneself
the ability to face frustration in day to day life
the ability to control one's basic impulses
the ability to control one's moods
the ability to delay gratifications
the ability to regulate one's emotions

These youngsters are good in handling their physical skills,mental skills,academic skills and mental skills.They  lack the ability to handle their emotional skills.Thoughts of worry and instability in family integrity confuses these younger minds.These children in general feel tired, fatigued and exhausted Students who are anxious, angry or depressed do not learn.The mind does not stay long in school works.Thoughts of self-pity,despair,hopelessness and helpnessness make them jittery and loose interest in good life.These frustrated children turn their anger and frustration towards the society in which they live.They expriment their bad emotions with their close friends and associates.A small emotional outburst land them into trouble.A friendly conversation ends in bitterness and violence.They are badly motivated by their bad feelings and emotions.


Emotional management programmes for children and adolescent are conducted
freely in schools and colleges.

To organise a free programme inside the premises of your school or college you can simply contact:

Email: doctor.habibullah@gmail.com

Dr.Habibullah is available in chennai now.
He is availble until the end of february.





















































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