AN EMOTIONALLY DISTURBED TEENAGER

QUESTION

My son is always tired,feel weak and confused.My family doctor tells me that my son is depressed.I am afraid and this makes me restless.I attended your workshop on 'teenage agonies and behaviour disorders' session for parents recently.Please tell me how can I know that my son is emotionally disturbed.

ANSWER

An emotionally disturbed child easily upsets by bad moods,thinks inferior,low ,unworthy,prone to jealousy,envy,indulge in violence,burst into fits and tears,jumps into fights and arguments,overreacts to irritation and frustration,violates rules and regulations,easily succumbs to bad habits,disobey parents and teachers,susceptible to rage and anger,feels low confidence and self esteem,more irritable,irresponsible,inactive and indifferent.These are common emotional disturbances any one can easily observe in children.Mothers are natural psychologists.

As a sensitve mother you can easily read these emotions written on the face of your child.You can attend my 'face reading' classes to learn this art.

MY MOTHER MAKES MY LIFE MISERABLE

QUESTION

I am eighteen years old.I am a bright student in studies.My father died two years back.I am living with my mother.My mother got some good contact in the cinema field.She wants me to act in some television seriels.Because of her compulsion I am doing some modelling works also.I earn good money from this profession.I have no interest in this field.I hate this acting profession.I want to continue my studies.My teachers are supporting me.My mother is totally against this.She beats me at times,I hate her for this.She is keeping all the money.she is not bothered about me .Her only interest is making more money.My life is miserable;my mother makes my life more miserable.Please advise me.

ANSWER

I am getting questions of this kind from number of teenage girls.The modern day trend reflects in their life style and madness for making easy money devastates the morale of the society.You are not an exception to it.It is unfortunate that your own mother exploits you for her own selfishness.Studying big courses in colleges will not make you very rich.Acting and modelling may fetch you a good money.It is a short cut way to make a cheap fame also.If you have no passion for acting you can simply follow your own concience.Consult some educated elderly men and women relatives in your family and ask them to advise your mother in this regard.As a girl it is too difficult for you to go against your mother's wishes.Tell your mother your difficulties that you face in your present profession.There is a possibility that she may change her mind soon. Do not take any hasty decisions;do not show your hatred towards your mother openly.Hope for the best;always be confident,after all she is your own mother.In your tender age it is not possible for you to live without your mother.

IS IT POSSIBLE FOR A LOVING MOTHER TO KILL HER TEENAGE SON

YOU MAY SHED TEARS IF YOU HAVE A GOOD HEART
Read the touching story....and discuss

Tom was a teenager.He was met with an accident.After the accident his brain got damaged.His condition becomes miserable and  he almost lived  in a pathetic  vegetative state.His mother Frances Inglis was a loving mother and also a nurse.She knows that there is  no possibility for her son's recovery.Her son's pain and suffering devasted her heart and mind.Her agony was intolerable.She cried a lot but it never reduced her pain and suffering.She became hopeless ,restless and helpless.Her love for him was uncontrollable and she was not prepared to continue this horrible state to prolong.She was not ready to give a life of hell to her loving son.His condition was getting  worse day after day.She took a bold decision to alleviate the suffering of her son.She administered the lethal dose of poison,and killed him with a heart, full of love.The laws ban mercy killing.She was offered a life imprisonment.The mother is not bothered about the judgement.She is happy that she has relieved the agony,pain and suffering of her loving son. WOULD SHE BE BLESSED BY HER LORD FOR HER MERCIFUL ACT.

IN THE SCHOOL BIG BAD BOYS TRIED TO UNDRESS ME..

QUESTION

My school is a top school in the city.When my father got a transfer,he used his influence to secure a seat for me in the school.As a new comer, I experienced a lot of problems from a group of senior students.I was teased, insulted and nagged.One day a group of seniors came to my room and tried to remove my clothes and they asked me to give a pose without dress.Luckily the warden came and I was saved.I am afraid to complain it to the teacher because of their vulgar threats.I have attended your emotional management programme recently.Please help me. I am depressed and totally confused.

ANSWER

Teasing of this kind is very common in schools and colleges, eventhough there are stringent laws to punish the law breakers. Stripping of one's dress in front of others is not an insult but humiliation.As a new student, to accomodate to these sorts of insults takes some more time.You need more courage to handle this challenge.Make efforts to make some good and brave students as your friends.Tackle the issue boldly.Send a clear message to your enemies that you are not a person to be humiliated easily.As far as possible try to tackle it with your new friends.If not possible tell it to to your parents and bring the matter to the notice of school authorities.At the same time be watchful and be little bit alert.With your good behaviour you can attract them and make them as your friends.